Playing The Field Can Be Dangerous

Recognizing a Cheater

Dating

Few people are willing to tell someone their partner is being unfaithful, and it can become a difficult situation when the person lives next door. Neighbors see everything, yet the cheater fails to be even a bit discreet. It should be wondered how they continue to get away with it, but the truth is that people will begin to avoid their partner rather than spill out the truth. It can be difficult recognizing a cheater when in a relationship with one, but silent neighbors can be a good clue.

Bad behavior is often seen, but few people say they will tolerate it. The truth is that most people will do nothing when it does not directly involve them, and they will stand by and watch without warning even an innocent victim. It should be noted that those who do find a way to drop a hint or tell a person outright are often not believed, but that still does not help the situation.

One of the ways cheaters are able to function well in a relationship is due to the fact that trust is a major component, so their partner is unlikely to be suspicious. They might have a few gaps to cover, but they might have already thought about what they will say when questioned. They already know what they have been doing, and they only have to keep their partner in the dark to succeed. They will gain confidence as they continue to get away with their bad behavior.

For those who have finally discovered the truth, emotional devastation is ahead. They should consider moving away from their current location so they do not need to face the neighbors, and they might even leave their spouse. Someone who is unfaithful will often cite lacks in their partner, but the truth is that the lack is in their own ability to remain true to the relationship.